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Getting It Together For the Holidays

Can you feel it in the air?  The buzz begins November 1 as the Halloween pumpkins come down and the Christmas decorations go up. The whole country shifts into high gear as everyone starts asking whether you've gotten your shopping done. (For the record, mine is half done.)

Here are some tips to help simplify and streamline holiday preparations (and reduce stress levels):

• Focus on what's important. Family? Friends? Faith, peace, simplicity, staying within your budget? Your focus will help determine what to say yes and no to this busy season.

• Plug in important dates. Block out time for family get-togethers, parties, shopping, decorating, wrapping, etc. Schedule some down time too. Sometimes I put "Home” in my planner to keep myself (and family) from being overscheduled.

• Say "no” to people, events, or activities that don't fit with this season's goals or budget. "I'm sorry, I have another appointment at that time” is a gracious way to decline. Remember, you can't (and shouldn't) do everything.

• Keep it all together. Store Christmas decorations, giftwrap, and cards in one area to prevent duplicate purchases. This year, use what you have before buying any more.

• Shop effectively. Avoid weekend shopping if at all possible. Set a budget. Make a list. Shop where you have coupons (and keep them in your car).

• Think outside the mall. Everyone wants to be appreciated, but they don't all need a gift. A card or email with a few sentences of sincere gratitude is often kept longer than a gift.

• Become the master of a few things. When bringing food (store-bought or homemade), notice the crowd-pleasing items. Buy the item (or ingredients) in bulk and make that your signature dish. Sugar cookies are my specialty. I make a huge batch, freeze the dough in small containers, and defrost as needed.

• Be a good receiver. Accept help when offered. Don't feel guilty about unexpected gifts. Be honest when asked what you need or want. Allow others the blessing of giving to and helping you. (This one is hard for me too.)

• Recognize when you're done. We place too many expectations on one month of the year. Do the best you can; then don't look at any more ads or recipes.

I hope that you will enjoy this beautiful season. It's been a tough year for us all, but there is much to be grateful for. Take some time to enjoy the reason for the season.

Merry Christmas, Happy Hanukkah, and Happy New Year. Thank you for your support and friendship. See you in 2010.

© Renee Ursem, 2009.

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